"You can't drag a person to the top of your mountain. They must be willing to climb their own. Can you imagine literally climbing a mountain trying to DRAG your significant other to the top with you because they are unwilling to even move? What’s going to happen? You’re going to fall backwards and kill both of you right? STOP IT."
There is a fine line between loving someone and giving up your life for them. *This would include your quality of life*. If you're wanting to move forward...MOVE.FORWARD. There's no telling what's already *ahead* waiting for you.
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