I was talking to someone recently and they were like, "You have some really high standards" (i.e., unrealistic expectations). Personally, I realize that actually when you have *godly standards* they simply look different from how the world *settles*, but when I did ask the Spirit to give me a "parable form" (Matthew 13:13) of what I think a healthy women in love with God *then herself* and then someone else would sound like, wouldn't you know it...an oldie-but-a-goodie! It's because her *phrasing* is healthy thanks to lines like, "Can I lay with you...*as your wife*? Can I be your friend 'til the end?"
It's a great song to push "reset" in your psyche to.