My older-than-I-am-married-male-second-cousin sent this to me this morning and when I watched it, I thought about the amount of times I put men through this *and* the amount of times I have watched women put men (and women) through this. A lot of times people are not looking for solutions. You can tell by how much they wallow in their problems.
Sometimes a one-minute video (give or take a few seconds) can say *so much*:
It's Not About the Nail from Jason Headley on Vimeo.