If y'all watched the video "Uncommon Sense: Qualities of a Godly Wife ft. Sarah Herold" last week then you'll enjoy watching her husband speak on the qualities of a godly husband too.
There's a reason why God wanted Ephesians 5 in the Word. There's also a reason why a husband loving his wife is compared to how Christ loves the Church. It's a high bar. It's meant to be a literal one too. You can (and should and are expected to) submit when *you choose* a man who submits to God.
"When you love your wife, you put the world back into order...the more a man loves a woman, the more lovely she becomes."---Chad Herold