I was doing a bit of online perusing yesterday...
And "happened upon" this video featuring R&B singer Brandy asking some questions that I also hear a lot. It's free 3 minute (and some change) TV therapy. But applicable nonetheless (peep what is said about forgiveness by the way. If you can't forgive *now*...marriage is not going to be a realistic or pleasurable experience for you. It's about *big time* and *continual* forgiveness!):
MOST PEOPLE ARE NOT WILLING TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK.
So true! Just ask all of the judges who grant divorces (SMH).
Please take it to heart.